Actress and former beauty queen Ruffa Gutierrez recently shared heartfelt advice and life lessons for her daughters, Lorin and Venice Bektas, as they return to Manila after their school break in the US. During the launch of her endorsement for Magical Gems by Isabel and Alexandria at Hashi Pan Asian Premium in Greenhills on May 20, Ruffa opened up about love, independence, and family values.
Traditional Courtship Values According to Ruffa Gutierrez
Ruffa emphasized traditional courtship values to her daughters, cautioning them against meeting suitors on the street or merely chatting on Instagram.
“I tell Lorin and Venice, huwag kayong makipagkita sa kalye. Or mag uusap lang kayo sa Instagram at nagpapakilala. Hindi ako naniniwala sa ganun. Kailangan pumunta sila sa bahay, humarap sila, magpakilala sila, at magbigay sila ng fruits,” she said.
She explained that suitors should visit their home, introduce themselves properly, and bring fruits as a sign of respect. Ruffa firmly stands by these old-fashioned values passed down by their parents.
Image alt: “Ruffa Gutierrez with daughters Lorin and Venice at Magical Gems launch event”
Teaching Independence: Ruffa Gutierrez on Raising Strong, Financially Independent Daughters
Beyond love advice, Ruffa has begun teaching Lorin and Venice about independence and self-reliance at a young age.
“Kanina si Venice sabi niya meron daw siyang cute na crush. But I tell them straight na para lang kaming magkakabarkada.”
She encourages her daughters to prioritize education and wait for partners who are God-fearing, hardworking, and loving. Ruffa stresses the importance of being financially independent and never relying solely on a man.
Image alt: “Ruffa Gutierrez giving love and life advice to her daughters”
Ruffa Gutierrez as Sole Provider for Her Daughters’ Education
As a single mother, Ruffa proudly supports her daughters’ education, being the sole provider and having ensured their schooling through college without selling any personal assets.
“Sa education ng mga bata, I am the sole provider. And I’m proud of that.”
She expressed gratitude for ongoing endorsements, shows, and investments that help support her family. Ruffa’s mother and Richard also provide financial assistance to Lorin and Venice occasionally.
Magical Gems Endorsement and New Branch Opening
Ruffa, who turns 51 on June 24, was warmly welcomed by Harry Lopez Chua, owner of Magical Gems PH, at the launch event. She announced she will be wearing Magical Gems jewelry in several scenes of her upcoming series “Beauty Empire,” a collaboration between GMA Network, Viu Philippines, and CreaZion Studios.
She also revealed plans to visit Davao to open a new branch of Magical Gems jewelry.
Image alt: “Ruffa Gutierrez endorsing Magical Gems jewelry in Manila”
Ruffa Gutierrez’s Upcoming Projects Including “Beauty Empire”
Ruffa is set to star in the highly anticipated series “Beauty Empire,” adding to her impressive career in Philippine showbiz.
Reflections on Marriage and Family Life by Ruffa Gutierrez
On the topic of marriage, Ruffa shared candid thoughts about her past and future:
“I’m not closing my doors. I remember after the breakdown of my marriage with Yilmaz (Bektas), ayoko na magpakasal. I was traumatized.”
She attends Bible studies and believes in keeping an open heart for future possibilities but is currently content with her life.
About Ruffa Gutierrez’s Family Life
Ruffa married Turkish businessman Yilmaz Bektas in 2003. They have two daughters, Lorin and Venice. Their marriage was annulled in 2012, after which Ruffa embraced single parenthood while pursuing her career.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) ❓
1. Who are Ruffa Gutierrez’s daughters?
Ruffa’s daughters are Lorin and Venice Bektas, who recently returned to Manila after their school break in the US.
2. What is Ruffa Gutierrez’s advice about love for her daughters?
She advises traditional courtship, encouraging her daughters to avoid meeting suitors on the street or chatting only on social media, and prefers proper introductions at home.
3. How does Ruffa support her daughters’ education?
Ruffa is the sole provider for their education and supports them through endorsements, shows, and investments.
4. What are Ruffa’s upcoming projects?
She stars in the series “Beauty Empire,” a collaboration between GMA Network, Viu Philippines, and CreaZion Studios.
5. What is Ruffa’s perspective on marriage?
She is open to marriage in the future but currently happy and focused on personal growth and family.
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